When the going gets tough…

I heard someone on the radio talking about how people often quit when things get too difficult. They use some idiom about how it wasn’t meant to be or it’s not the right time, etc. when in reality, it IS the right time, they just have to push through the tough parts.

This resonated with me, particularly at this time in my life when I’m working on finishing my thesis for my masters program, and completing a graduate certificate for my certification all while going to school, trying to get my fieldwork experience in, writing, trying to be the healthiest version of me, and so on and so on and so on. The end of my academic journey is so near, but it’s so much work! I’d never give up after getting so far, but when I heard that guy saying that stuff, I was like HECK YEAH!! Absolutely!! It always gets harder at the end. Look at those obstacle courses on the ninja warrior shows, they never have you finish on a downward slide, it’s always an uphill climb.

So yeah…something to think about.

Phrase of the year

I’ve seen a lot of my friends post on their blogs or on social media that they have discovered their word of the year. It’s a word they’ve chosen (or a word that has chosen them) that will guide them throughout the year.

Well, I’m not sure about a word, but I’ve found a phrase that I’m pretty sure defines me.

“She believed she could, so she did.”

What does this mean to me? Exactly what it says. If I believe I can do something, I do it. I’m not wishy washy about it, I’m confident. If it fails then it fails, but at least I tried.

  • I believed I could write, so I did.
  • I believed I could raise money for a cause, so I did.
  • I believed I could become a BCBA, so I did (in process).
  • I believed I could organize a major fundraising event, so I did.

I’m not sure if this phrase could equate to just one word. I keep thinking something like “determination” or “unstoppable” or “fearless.” But those words can mean so many different things, and I feel like this phrase leaves no room for interpretation. It’s straightforward, and I like that about it because I’m also straightforward.

Anyway, do you have a word or phrase of the year? Or if your life? Do share.